Believing she is a whore ... but loving her and trying to cure her need for another men ... he finally understands that she was actually looking for another profile of man. ... and all was induced of the fact that he was not playing on the stage of life ... as she wanted by the well known romanian author Adrian Dumitru
I've once read a book written by australian lady ... about the selfishness and stupidity of men.
I was very annoyed into the beginning, but later on ... I've understood she was right ... and I should keep in mind her advices .... into my relationships with the women from my life.
The philosophical question of the book was ... why the hell a normal woman starts acting like a whore?!
It's all about being a .... nymphomaniac?!
As usual ... not to make any mistake into my
introspections ... i look again into the dictionary and see that a nymphomaniac is ... a woman with uncontrollable or excessive sexual desire.
But this australian author keep repeating into the book that the behaviour of acting as a whore is not related to the desire of sex.
In fact ... that might be the last thing the woman has in mind.
So ... she tells her story about her marriage ... her husband and their huge psychological problems generated by the fact that he did not know anything about relationships... even if she was keep repeating him all the time all sorts of elementary informations.
He loved her ... and even made her happy ... but being extremely selfish ... he did not realised ... all he must do ... was to keep his wife happy.
So ... unconsciously the author started to play the role of an easy woman and not even bother to hide herself of her husband.
He disliked all ... and could not understand how the hell she could do that to him.
Loving her ... a lot ... understanding he needs to do something ... the first logical thing came into his mind was that he needs to satisfy all her sexual desires.
... play better this role of a lover in bed.
Unfortunately ... she was keep acting like a whore.
And all was repeating on and on and on ... and on.
He was in front of a ... paradox.
When he met her ... she was not a whore ... and he played
very good his role of a lover ... but she continued to humiliate him ... flirting into an abstract way with other men, in front of his eyes.
But ... damn it ... he loved her.
... even a lot.
So ... trying to save their relationship ... analysing her more and more ... he starts to ask her to play sexual games ... trying to make her imagine she is into the company of more men.
Going deeply ... tries to make her understand the pleasure she could feel while making love with 2,3, ... even 5 men.
But ... she starts to dislike these stupid games he was trying to play.
... and even clearly tells him that.
Unfortunately ... he could not stop asking her in bed to do that ... so one day enters into this role of a women playing in bed like a porn actress with more men .... and suddenly starts to define one of those man.
Suddenly ... he realises that more she was defining ... the discussion was not about sex ... but about a certain profile of man that she was chasing for.
Most probably ... a man that is not suffering of selfishness ... and can make her ... feel like a queen.
He was a good lover.
... in bed ... maybe even an amazing one ... but that's not enough.
Yes ... it's not enough for a woman.
Cause if she wants to feel like a queen ... or at least as a princess ... but lives the life of a Cinderella .... all her dreams
are ruined.
But she will continue dreaming.
Yes ... dreaming of that profile of a man ... that can give her the sensation of feeling ... a special woman.
She will look to many as an easy woman ... or what many defines .... a whore ... but she is just chasing for her dream of meeting that man from fairy tale.
Nothing ... more ...
Maybe all was actually a fundamental right ... of a woman ... and all the australian lady was trying to say into her book ... besides the fact that all men from this world are idiots ... is that we should look deeper into the soul of the women from our lives ... and clearly understand what they need and want.
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